I pay attention to every last detail. I was trained to. I just don’t ruin my marriage by picking at every last detail. There’s a talk. Change is expected. We move forward. Change happens. Dumbass women drill a man into the ground with their issues and complaints until he leaves. For 15 years, I complained so little in my last marriage, he never saw it coming when I made the choice to pick up and leave. THAT is the strength of a woman…not threats, drama, and garbage.